So why is it so hard?
Dearest, My love for you is easy. Being with you, caring for you, and our conversations are easy. And although our loving you is easy, relationships take work. Not the type of work like cleaning the bathroom, but work of joy, of giving on ones self, and passion to come together
Yes, we are different people with different experiences from different paths. But our paths have crossed and joined together. Relationships are not always easy, and ours has had its struggles. Part of our struggle is we both want what we want, and those two things don’t always align. So we push each other a little and grind on each others’ feelings at times. But we also explore each other through our many conversations, spending time together, sharing our pasts and our dreams. As we move through this process, hopefully we will begin to cut our own path together – figuring out a way that works for both of us, and makes us both richer and more fulfilled than being without each other. Moving towards our own ever-after.
You inspire me more than any other person has in my life. I am not trying to change who you are, but only how you view a future together. You make me want to change some things about me so we can be more at ease together. I am willing to try.
I love you.
