Dearest,
Thank you for calling me last night. And thank you for your understanding and sharing of your time. Our conversation has left me feeling a bit insecure and jealous.
Did you tell me about your dinner to see if I was ok with it, or to see if I would be upset? I am trying to be trusting and non-controlling. But, I still worry that maybe dinner was really a date. And even if it wasn’t a date, do you still have feelings for him? I know you would have told me if it were a date.
The story seems to have changed a little – from dinner with a friend to dinner and a movie with an old flame. Am I jealous? A little. Am I insecure? Yes. Am I upset? No, because I know you need to work these things out and you need to have your own space. And, you called me which reassures me that you want to keep exploring the possibilities with me. I will work on my insecurities.