Floored! But I shouldn’t be.

Well, that was a bomb-shell. As much as I am surprised, I know I shouldn’t be. Yes, you said you were going to start dating. And, I know how easy it is to fall in love with you.

And, yes, it seems we could never come together with you rooted there and me rooted here.

I am glad you’re happy. I’m not sure I fit in your life anymore.

Author: Him

A story of love lost. Just a guy in love with a woman that doesn't want a relationship with him. She moved away and married someone else. I have shared this blog with her, and she knows the truth. I tried. I waited for a while. But, none of it worked. She is married to someone else now, but still drops into my life now and again. I am trying to move on. But, she was my one true love that inspired me to be a better person. If any of this story has meaning to you, please let me know. Thank you.

9 thoughts on “Floored! But I shouldn’t be.”

    2. I have no one I can discuss my feeling with to work this through for me. It’s not your problem.

  2. If you do not want me to contact you, I completely understand.

    You’re living with someone, you vacation together, was I supposed to wait for her divorce to be finalized? Were we going to screw around when I was in VT? Was I supposed to wait until you could move?

    I have been saying I needed to make changes. I want to have my life settled, I am soon to be 50…. What should I do?? Let lfee pass me by?

    1. I knew you had to move on. I’m just feeling the loss all over again. It will pass, just like last time.

    1. Not at all, just that you walked away a long time ago, but I keep thinking you’ll come back. Now, I have to deal with the fact you won’t, and it is more impossible.

  4. Yes, I walked away. I thought it would be best since I want to travel and live a full life. You have ties to your home, your state and your children who need you. Your siblings need you. You are a fixer, and there isn’t anything wrong with that.

    Unfortunately I don’t believe my entire life is in (insert your state here). My children have lives of their own, my mom is doing great and doesn’t need day to day care, my siblings manage their own lives. I have my love and I am finally in a position to live. My debt has improved, my health is on the upswing, I’m loving my job (I’m exhausted, in a good way!).

    You have moved on. You live with someone, you have a relationship with her, unfortunately she is still living her weird life and you are ok with it. I feel you are ok with it because it’s an excuse to not commit.

    Why can’t you talk to your therapist (RL) about this?

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