Will you forget me?

You asked if I would forget you. Stop thinking about you. I told you I could never forget you and that I think about you every day. And maybe there will come a time where I don’t think about you every day, but only some days. Maybe there will come a time when my heart doesn’t ache for you – but that time seems impossible.

But, will you forget me? Will you move away and erase me from your thoughts? Will you stop thinking about me? I know you have a lot going on and both the excitement and fear of moving can be overwhelming.

I will not forget you. I haven’t stopped loving you.

Why I say I love you

I say I love you because I am trying to comfort you. I wish you could feel secure in that. I say I love you so you feel cared about, cared for, and know that you are lovable and deserve to be loved.

And because I love you, I will support your moving to a new life and and new employment. I know you need to this.

And no, you don’t need to ask if you fail will I rescue you – for two reasons. First, you won’t fail. You may struggle and be unhappy at times. But, I believe in you and I know you are a strong person – stronger than me. I know you will succeed.

And secondly, of course you can come back any time you want. I would never turn you away. But I won’t be hoping for failure to get you back.