I came across this while putting away some files. Maybe we should revisit it? I’m not sure I could stick by rule 4.
The plan: Transform in to K*****’s friend
The rules
- D****** does not contact K. K initiates contact when she wants to chat, text, talk, or see D*****. D will only reply, or contact K if K has requested it.
- D***** does not see K**** for a while – maybe a week, maybe more.
- K**** does not say indefinite terms. i.e. “I don’t know what I want” or “I do care about you….” These terms only lead D***** on and confuse his emotions.
- D***** does not try to make physical contact with K****. He does not hold K’s hand or kiss K. This will be difficult but is necessary to transform into a friendship.
- K***** needs to hold the boundaries. K**** needs to not let D***** kiss her or hold hands. This may be difficult, but is necessary.
- D**** keeps his mouth shut about feelings.
- If K**** changes her mind, she can discuss it then with D, but only if she had made a true decision.
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Her – I am sorry you were running late yesterday, it would have been nice to day hi. Are you ok? I know you don’t understand me, but I do care. I also worry about you…..
Just wanted to tell you that.
